There’s a terrific idea over at vanillaedge.wordpress.com which I do hope takes off.
As I understand it (and this understanding may be different to that of the originator), the idea is that what might be a problem or issue in the non-BDSM world is no sort of problem at all in the perverse world. In fact, quite the opposite. A fair degree of irony is involved.
I’ll follow this post with a few examples, derived shamelessly from vanillaedge.wordpress.com